Daily Prompt Narcissism |Narcissist A Evil Face!

self love

Narcissism, Do you love yourself? Obviously we all love ourselves, think about us, care about us. Our primary priority is us. If we won’t love, respect, and care about us why other’s will bother them for us, they will also take us for granted. In my previous posts, I always talked and emphasized on self-love because I believe an empty vessel can’t quench anyone’s thirst. If we are empty from the inside, don’t have the flow of love in us we can’t love anyone else. Self-love is a beautiful feeling it is a progressive thought that teaches us not only to love ourselves but also to love and respect others in the same way. It is different from self-obsession a self-obsessed person only lives for themselves. When this obsession crosses all its boundaries, it transforms into a disease Narcissism where person become so self-centered that they start to think that they are capable of driving the whole world. They are superior everyone around them needs their validation to do anything. They want to be a role model for all. They love to keep followers who keep praising them their views.Β  They constantly need attention even if you are talking about any general topic they will revert it to them. They are really conscious about their image, their physical appearance. They don’t take criticism easily. When you first meet them, you always feel positive because they love to leave a great impression. They never show any fear on their face their confidence is incredible but in the longer run, you will start feeling their negative attitude. Their lack of empathy ruins the relationships they always give preference to their feeling over others. They don’t regard or care about others feeling, in fact, they are really good manipulators, demanding, and arrogant. They don’t trust anyone. They give themselves that much of importance that if you will crack any joke or have fun with them, they start feeling that you are trying to make fun of them, they take everything personally and suddenly become loud and angry few times they become really abusive and violent. They tend to hold gurges for long. The biggest problem with Narcissist that they probably don’t know that they have a personality disorder or even if they know they are not ready to accept it. Dealing and living with Narcissist is not easy as they don’t have any boundaries, so you need to set your limits before they show their real colors. You need to be gentle, and patient don’t praise them for supporting their behavior but don’t criticize to trigger them. Once they become angry do not discuss anything otherwise you will burn your fingers. Walk away to make situation calm and light find some other way to discuss your concern might be some indirect examples can help. Never try to argue with them if you do they will ignore you entirely, or even they can blame you for their defense. They always have excuses for their abusive behavior. These people seriously need proper treatment and counseling otherwise they can hurt themselves or others to protect their image. Your timely observation, awareness, and support can help someone to understand their fear and anxiety and fight with this mental illness. Hope this post can assist you in some way to identify and to deal with Narcissism.

-Kranti

Narcissism

16 thoughts on “Daily Prompt Narcissism |Narcissist A Evil Face!

    1. Thank you so much Kabby for reblogging! Hope more people can connect to this post and spread awareness to help who are struggling with this evil personality disorder! πŸ’›βœ¨

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  1. Just a few months ago, I came across this term, when I heard The Chainsmokers’ song “Sick Boy”. And today, your post helped me to completely go through the whole web of Narcissism. As far as I can see, a year ago or two, I was completely a Narcissist. But a grand change occurred then, and things have changed a lot to me. And see today, Which I have never thought I’d do that I’m a blogger on wordpress and heading to my up next series whose first post is probably about Narcissism.
    This one post is the best ever for me on Narcissism and would really help me to write my next post of the coming series titled, “Slash”.
    Thank you so much for sharing !!!
    😊

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    1. My pleasure Kabby! Bravo!! for coming out and sharing your experience. People always find it difficult to talk about their problem but you are an inspiration you fought with this mental dilemma and proved that nothing is impossible if you are eager to make a change! Looking forward to reading your next post series β€œslash” πŸ‘πŸ’›βœ¨

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