“Inner peace begins the moment you choose not to allow another person or event to control your emotions.”
Let’s accept this..emotional bonds are always deep and strong, they influence us throughout our life. Many of us get driven by these bonds. Such bonds play a vital role in our journey. These connections affect our mood, thoughts, and personality. They provide us desired warmth in order to thrive.
It’s really unpleasant when we get tangled in these emotional bonds and start feeling suffocated. We depend so much on them that gradually they become the source of our happiness and existence. We lose the sense of responsibility towards us. Many times we get confused and frustrated between where we are and where we want to be..what is best for us as it involves a deep-seated conflict with people who are significantly important for our lives. We often give them the key to take charge of our lives because we believe they have a better life experience than us, they know what is better for us. Lastly, we lose the sight of who we truly are and accept to live in their shadow rather than shine on our own.
It’s really important to realize that these deep-rooted attachments are the part of our life, not LIFE. No one is responsible for us or our happiness. Happiness comes from within, and we channel that happiness to these emotional bonds to make them vibrant and joyful. Each connection needs proper space and boundary to breathe and bloom. Our purpose should be to gain a healthy perspective of others without creating conflict with ourselves. Just think we have only one life to live and if we live that life according to other’s choices when will we live our dreams and desires? We need to decide are we really happy and satisfied by giving the driving seat to other’s in life or we want to shape our life the way we envisioned.
Recognizing and acknowledging self- worth is essential don’t give other’s so much power to direct and define you. Remember people can only take what you will allow them to take. You can’t control their thoughts and behavior, but you can choose your reaction if you feel their choices and suggestions are not aligned with your peace and purpose, you have right to refuse and to create positive things in your life for yourself. Liberate yourself ..No one holds power over you, radiate your light within to discover yourself!
“If you can see your path laid out in front of you step by step, you know it’s not your path. Your own path you make with every step you take. That’s why it’s your path.”—Joseph Campbell
Well I have to scroll down for sometime to share my views as this post has already got so many opinions, yet I could not resist myself from expressing my gratitude and well wishes for such a great thought. Thank You!
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Thank you so much dear! I am really humbled by your kind words.. means a lot to me ✨😊
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Superb👌. Every word shows a new light 💐
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Thanks a lot dear for reading and appreciating! Your words of encouragement means a lot to me..✨❤️
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The moment we realize, the key is to be kept in our pocket, and not to hand it over to other, life changes. It did for me. And I wish people reading the post, keep their keys. Well written Kranti
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Exactly!! Thanks a lot Jaya for reading and appreciating.. your kind words mean a lot to me!! 🤗
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Hey Kranti,
Nice post and seriously like, “Not to give control of your life to someone”.
As part of this thing, we have to be in self-alert where some of our relationships in our life shows that these relationships our full of love, Love is only the reason when we don’t care if someone is controlling our life because we know that love exist there. But Most of the time it does not happens, few relationships control our self by name of love, but in reality these relationships are not like that as we usually think. We have to little bit concussions about if someone is controlling our self by name of love.
And this happens to us, we all are Hungary for love, love is only the reality. We have to keep an eye on this aspect as well.
Thanks for writing such nice thing!!
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Exactly dear!! 😊 Thanks so much for taking time to read the post! Always glad to hear from you!! So happy you liked and enjoyed reading it. I appreciate your heartfelt words!
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Hi,
How are you?Kranti
https://wordpress.com/post/beingllimitless.wordpress.com/109,,,
Check this out you have been nominated for Blogger recognition award..Happy Blogging..in creating a healthy stronger community.
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Hey Jaya I am doing good! Thanks a lot dear for the nomination!! I truly appreciate it! Happy Blogging ❤️✨
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Glad to hear that Kranti:)
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I nominated you for the Blogger Recognition Award for consistently wonderful posts that help us find our paths.
isaiah46ministries.com/2018/09/04/blogger-recognition-award/
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Glad you liked my posts!! Thank you so much for the nomination! 😊
Getting nominated by you means a lot to me..! I truly appreciate it!💛 ✨✨
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So true
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Thank you so much dear for stopping by and taking time to read the post! Glad you liked it! 😊
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I felt this entire post !! 💜 So important to not let your mood shift based on insignificant actions of someone else. That’s for sure.
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Absolutely!! Thanks a lot dear your appreciation means a lot to me..❤️✨
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Anytime boo!
xoxo!
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😊 xoxo
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Hiii.
I have nominated you for sunshine blogger award check it here
https://positivelivinglife.wordpress.com/2018/09/01/sunshine-blogger-award/
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Thanks a lot Murshid for the nomination! 😊I really appreciate it 💛
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I have updated the blog post for nominees by adding my questions …
They are as follows :-
Questions for my nominees :-
1.What inspires you to write ?
2.If you get the chance to change something in this world ,what would it be ?
3 .Your favourite book and author ?
4 .What is your definition of being rich ?
5.According to you ,which job should be the highest paying job in this world ?
6.Your favourite blog ?
7.Name any movie that relates with your life ?
8.How would the world of your dream look like ?
9.Which one do you prefer more ?? love or respect ??
10.Your quote of the day ?
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Thank you so much Muneeta for letting me know about updated information 😊✨
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Wow! Great Post!
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Thanks a lot dear for stopping by and taking time to read the post! 😊 Glad you liked it. 💛
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That’s a great post… everything you’ve shared is so true!
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Thank you so much dear! I truly appreciate your kind words! ❤️
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Superb ❤️ well penned 🌸
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Thank you so much dear 🌸
Glad you liked it ❤️
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Welcome
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Thank you for this! 😀
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Thank you so much dear for your kind words! 😊
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Inspirational
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Thank you so much sir for stopping by and taking time to read the post! Glad you find it inspirational 😊
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Truely motivating dear I so much loved it
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Thank you so much Adi! Glad you loved it!! I really appreciate your uplifting words! 🤗
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Hey kranti, I have nominated you for ” The Awesome Impact Award” , Congratulations 💐
For more information please check my post https://fromakshayasmind.wordpress.com/2018/08/28/the-awesome-impact-award-✳️/
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Congrats 🍫 💐 and Thank you so much Akshaya for the nomination! I truly appreciate it! ❤️
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Deja Vu? 🤔 I think i saw this amazing post a few weeks ago 😯
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Yes dear, but not few weeks..on last Thursday actually, some of readers informed me they can’t see my post so I thought to repost it. Uh..Wordpress I can’t help it dear..I don’t know how many more glitches.. please don’t mind you will keep seeing such activity..
well.. good thing is you find it amazing 😉Thank you Lord Unni for your divine presence 💖🙏
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Oh thank god 😀
I thought I was in a time loop
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😄😄 actually take it like a time loop 😉
anyways Time Zone difference to hai hi..😊
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Yeah, i am +5.30 ahead.. buhahaha
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I think it’s +9.30 ahead..😉
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toinggggg
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Sorry Lord Unni I found this comment in spam 😢
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It’s ok.. u learned a new lesson that lord unni is everywhere, even in the spam box 😖👍
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Yes this the lesson.. which I don’t want to learn.. I can’t see the most precious comments in spam box 😬
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(time to act like a fraud) oh so u cant see spam comments? Then u should share ur WordPress username and pass with me so that i can inform u whenever there is a spam comment.. arey no need of thanks ji.. i like helping 😈
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😄😄 I have a better idea when you don’t see your comment on my post inform me.. brilliant na.. don’t praise I know I am a friend of genius Unni Babu..👽
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😖 America got a clever lady who can outsmart even the russian hackers
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😄😄 I am accepting it as a compliment!! ✨
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Next post when?🤔
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So you are ready to give me blessing.. 😊
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Blessing + like + comment!! Jio dhan dhana dhan 😀
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Your comments are blessing dear! Aaj to nikal pdi itni extra blessings..🙏😄😄
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Wise words of an amazing person!! This post and the previous one, I think there’s a connection. Finding self worth and the divinity go hand in hand I believe. Well that’s just what I thought reading this post.
Hope you are doing amazing, and have an amazing day!! Stay amazing…
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Dear emotions are interconnected one emotion triggers other emotion.. Absolutely true if we discover ourselves we discover divinity..✨✨
Have an amazing day! 😊
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True that!! All is requires is self discovery…
You too have an amazing day!!
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Such an inspiring post! Love every word!!. Thanks for sharing
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It’s a pleasure dear!! Thank you so much for taking time to read the post!😊
I truly appreciate your kind and thoughtful words! 💖
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Excellent post ## inspirational
No one is responsible for us or our happiness. Happiness comes from within …
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Keep sharing 💙
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Thanks a lot Akshaya for appreciating my work!! Glad you liked it! 💛
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What a refreshing post. I loved it. The way you defined life is fabulous. Well done.
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Thanks a lot Shantanu!! Glad you loved it 😊 Indeed life is fabulous ❤️
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It sure is my friend
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Great job.
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I am just learning from you…
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Dear, glad if my posts are helping you.. right now I am also learning..😊
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Ya I like that attitude..we should always learn something
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Absolutely dear! 💛
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And you are right we shouldn’t be control by others
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Glad you agree!! I really appreciate your kind words dear 😊
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My pleasure 😊
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It’s not possible for everyone to live according to his or her own style…but what I feel whenever you get opportunity to live according to your own style, so never miss that opportunity
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Well once we realize and acknowledge we can.. 😊 definitely, we should not miss any opportunity where we can embrace self-worth and self discovery..
Thanks a lot dear for stopping by and taking time to read the post!! 💛🌸
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Your post will motivate me…thanx for the post
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My absolute pleasure dear 😊 If my post motivates you in any way then my writing becomes successful!! 💛
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Yes you are a successful writer..
Keep motivating us👍👍
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😊🌸
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If I write something different with the help of your title, so will you have any problem?
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No dear not at all.. everyone has their own thoughts and experience on similar topic.. sorry I didn’t see this comment yesterday anyways ….you wrote more on professional relationship and I wrote on emotional bonds..both subjects are totally different and title is also different so readers won’t get confused..😊
Btw Happy Raksha Bandhan dear!! 💛
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Yes you are indeed.. I have just used your title in my blog and your blog is absolutely true that we shouldn’t let anyone to control us…and if your thoughts come in my mind first then might be I wrote before you..
Happy Raksha Bandhan too…
Btw if you don’t mind so may I ask which city are you from?
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No problem dear! Thoughts are based on our own experience or observation around us..definitely it’s just time what and when something pops up in our mind..
you can dear.. I am from Mumbai India currently living in United States.. 😊
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Good to know this …😊
Alright keep writing so many meaningful post..
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Important message! Thank you for writing this.
I had written a similar post on taking back control of your life: https://sindhujamanohar.com/2018/07/18/own-your-reality/
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My Absolute pleasure dear!! Thank you so much for stopping by 😊 Sure I will check it out!!
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We often fail to realise this on time. It is only later when we we sit back with pockets full of regrets and unfulfilled wishes that we realise these words of wisdom.
Well written, Kranti. 🖤
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I agree Barkaat!! 💛 Thank you so much dear! I truly appreciate your true and thoughtful words 😊
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Simple words and yet a very powerful message. Beautifully penned♥️♥️
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Thank you so very much dear! I really appreciate your kind and encouraging words!! ❤️🤗
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This so true ❤💯
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Thank you so much dear for taking time to read the post! Glad you agree! I appreciate you stopping by 💛😊
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Nice as always..loved reading it.
Keep sharing!
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Thank you so much dear! Glad you loved it…I truly appreciate your beautiful words! ❤️
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Hey kranti. Just nominated you for the liebster award… congratulations!!!
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Thank you so very much Riman for the nomination! I truly appreciate it. ❤️
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Wonderful….we should be the only one to govern our life, choose to be happy each day.
Very wise & inspiring post !!!
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Absolutely!! Thanks a lot dear.. Glad you liked it 😊 I truly appreciate your thoughtful words ❤️
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we lose the sight of who we truly are and accept to live in their shadow rather than shine on our own… It happens, agreed.!
You have narrated both the situations so perfectly dear,.. !!
Magar kehte hai, jab tak aap Mandir naa chale jao, bhagwan ji nazar nhi aate 😊. So, Most important thing is awakening & discovering ourselves rather than chasing someone. I loved the thought when you have spoken about our own desires and dream ❤ Nd what can be the best reason instead of that to live this beautiful life ❤ very well done dear kranti 😄 aaj see aap humare Mitra ke sath sath Guru bhi ban gaye 😊😊 Digital guru.. !!
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So true dear awakening and self- discovery is most important.. Indeed these dreams and desires fuel motivation and make life more lively to live ❤️..😄 Dear Mitra ke sath Guru.. Guru may bnao..Guru is really respectable position and I don’t think I deserve that much respect..🙏 but mitra ko mera likha psand aaya mere liye utna hi bhaut hai.. 💛😊
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Okay Dear Mitra kranti 😄
You are welcome 😇
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Nice one
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Thank you so much Daneel for your kind words!! Glad you like it 😊
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Welcome Kranti
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From Starting “Emotional Bonds” Yes it happens and we stick to this, But this is a part of journey, It’s so Inspiring 🙂 Thankyou 🤗🌸
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Thanks a lot Aman! Glad you liked it 😊 I really appreciate your beautiful and thoughtful words 🌸🤗
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Always Welcome Dear 🤗🌸
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Very true…
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Thank you so much Ushnish for taking time to read the post!! Glad you agree! I appreciate you stopping by 😊
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You’re most Welcome Kranti🌷🌷
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This is so wise! Excellent post Kranti!❤️
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Thanks a lot Richa! Glad you liked the post!! I truly appreciate your kind words ❤️🤗
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Brilliant ….every word is true 👏👏😊. It’s so motivating
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Thank you so very much Sakshi!! Glad you liked it! 💕I really appreciate your words 🤗
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My pleasure Kranti 🤗❤️
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