Relations- A Learning Trail


We come across several people either for some purpose or accidentally. They all leave some kind of impression on us temporary or permanent it depends on how and why we meet them. Neither all are bad, nor all are good they all are distinctive serving some purpose in our life. Either they will support us, encourage us, love us, help us or they will disappoint us, hurt us, judge us or hate us, but they all have something in them to teach and make us much better individual than yesterday. Our biggest test is to deal with them, as much as they influence us at the same time we influence them. It takes patience and efforts to understand someone’s thought process and expectations. They all help us to discover who we are.

Growth and learning are the collective efforts. If we are alone, we won’t be able to bring out our best but when these people interact with us, touch our lives in some way they help us to make our personality complete by letting us know our weakness and strength, our positive side and our negative side. Both Positive and negative relationships are similarly important in life.

Every experience counts in life nothing is for granted. Positive relationship uplifts us, motivate us, appreciate us embrace our imperfections while negative relationship will teach more about us and our life. It tells us about our preferences and encourage us to make better choices in life. Saying let it go is really easy than accepting it. It needs self-control to make it happen. It is so easy to have believed in lies and illusion, but it is tough to face the reality. It is so easy to blame and fight with others, but it is more challenging to fight within. Make sure to make gold pure and shiny, it must be passed through fire. Life is a school it will keep testing you on every stage. Wrong is preparing you for the right. You may not have control over the all the tests, but you can either let the lesson wrack you or empower you!

I believe that everything happens for a reason. People change so that you can learn to let go, things go wrong so that you appreciate them when they’re right, you believe lies so you eventually learn to trust no one but yourself, and sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together.

— Marilyn Monroe


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